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Overcoming Your Insecurity When Dating A Really Good Looking Person


I’d bet my bottom dollar that Brangelina doesn’t have this problem! Let’s face it, both Angelina and Brad are exceptionally good looking people. They have the votes from magazines and gossip websites around the world to prove it.

Even if they were single, they would have more than enough suitors after them and would have it easy and may not have to consider internet dating as a resource unless they chose to do so.

Good looking people get attention, there’s no getting away from that. And when two good looking people are dating, the attention drawn their way doubles. So what would happen if you were to date a drop dead gorgeous someone? Would your insecurities surface or would you cope just fine?

I’m an average looking gal. My friends describe me as “cute in a girl next door kinda way”. And most of the men I’ve dated are average looking as well, with one exception. This guy was so good looking I sometimes wondered what the heck he was doing with me! Women and men both drooled over this guy’s appearance.

But when we were out together, people looked at him, not at me. It wasn’t something I was used to. We didn’t date for long and although I was sad when we broke up, I was happy the relationship was over. I was simply too insecure to date someone better looking than myself.

Now what he looked like should really not have mattered. He was simply a person looking for love and he actually liked me for who I was. Clearly, he found me attractive however, the problem was not him. It was me. I had fantasized about the guy with the movie star looks as a teen, but when it became a reality I had no idea what to do with him. It is as though, I could not relax and just enjoy the moment. He was fun to be with and loved to play practical jokes, but somehow the looks were an issue.

Now that I’m older of course I realize how silly I was back then. Although looks are the first thing we notice when we meet someone it’s personality and common interests that will take a relationship to the next level.

Well life has given me a second chance. I’m currently seeing someone even better looking than before (who knew that it was even possible?). Now when we hold hands in public and the ladies swoon, I smile, and mean it. My guy is as handsome in the inside as he is on the outside. And I’m secure enough in my own strengths that his looks just aren’t an issue.

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I’d bet my bottom dollar that Brangelina doesn’t have this problem! Let’s face it, both Angelina and Brad are exceptionally good looking people. They have the votes from magazines and gossip websites around the world to prove it.

Even if they were single, they would have more than enough suitors after them and would have it easy and may not have to consider internet dating as a resource unless they chose to do so.

Good looking people get attention, there’s no getting away from that. And when two good looking people are dating, the attention drawn their way doubles. So what would happen if you were to date a drop dead gorgeous someone? Would your insecurities surface or would you cope just fine?

I’m an average looking gal. My friends describe me as “cute in a girl next door kinda way”. And most of the men I’ve dated are average looking as well, with one exception. This guy was so good looking I sometimes wondered what the heck he was doing with me! Women and men both drooled over this guy’s appearance.

But when we were out together, people looked at him, not at me. It wasn’t something I was used to. We didn’t date for long and although I was sad when we broke up, I was happy the relationship was over. I was simply too insecure to date someone better looking than myself.

Now what he looked like should really not have mattered. He was simply a person looking for love and he actually liked me for who I was. Clearly, he found me attractive however, the problem was not him. It was me. I had fantasized about the guy with the movie star looks as a teen, but when it became a reality I had no idea what to do with him. It is as though, I could not relax and just enjoy the moment. He was fun to be with and loved to play practical jokes, but somehow the looks were an issue.

Now that I’m older of course I realize how silly I was back then. Although looks are the first thing we notice when we meet someone it’s personality and common interests that will take a relationship to the next level.

Well life has given me a second chance. I’m currently seeing someone even better looking than before (who knew that it was even possible?). Now when we hold hands in public and the ladies swoon, I smile, and mean it. My guy is as handsome in the inside as he is on the outside. And I’m secure enough in my own strengths that his looks just aren’t an issue.

This article was written by the writers of the Datepad.com internet dating company where you can find thousands of helpful dating articles. Get a totally unique version of this article from our article submission service

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I’d bet my bottom dollar that Brangelina doesn’t have this problem! Let’s face it, both Angelina and Brad are exceptionally good looking people. They have the votes from magazines and gossip websites around the world to prove it.

Even if they were single, they would have more than enough suitors after them and would have it easy and may not have to consider internet dating as a resource unless they chose to do so.

Good looking people get attention, there’s no getting away from that. And when two good looking people are dating, the attention drawn their way doubles. So what would happen if you were to date a drop dead gorgeous someone? Would your insecurities surface or would you cope just fine?

I’m an average looking gal. My friends describe me as “cute in a girl next door kinda way”. And most of the men I’ve dated are average looking as well, with one exception. This guy was so good looking I sometimes wondered what the heck he was doing with me! Women and men both drooled over this guy’s appearance.

But when we were out together, people looked at him, not at me. It wasn’t something I was used to. We didn’t date for long and although I was sad when we broke up, I was happy the relationship was over. I was simply too insecure to date someone better looking than myself.

Now what he looked like should really not have mattered. He was simply a person looking for love and he actually liked me for who I was. Clearly, he found me attractive however, the problem was not him. It was me. I had fantasized about the guy with the movie star looks as a teen, but when it became a reality I had no idea what to do with him. It is as though, I could not relax and just enjoy the moment. He was fun to be with and loved to play practical jokes, but somehow the looks were an issue.

Now that I’m older of course I realize how silly I was back then. Although looks are the first thing we notice when we meet someone it’s personality and common interests that will take a relationship to the next level.

Well life has given me a second chance. I’m currently seeing someone even better looking than before (who knew that it was even possible?). Now when we hold hands in public and the ladies swoon, I smile, and mean it. My guy is as handsome in the inside as he is on the outside. And I’m secure enough in my own strengths that his looks just aren’t an issue.

This article was written by the writers of the Datepad.com internet dating company where you can find thousands of helpful dating articles. Get a totally unique version of this article from our article submission service

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